Saturday, January 26, 2013

Steps to Parenting the Montessori Way: Part 4


  • Talk to your child clearly without talking down.  Communicate with respect, and give the child the gift of language, new words, and expressions.

  • Teach your child his/her address, phone number, and parents' names

  • Together, do things to help others (e.g., take food to an aging or ill neighbor, contribute blankets to a homeless shelter, give toys to those who have none, etc.).

  • Take a rain walk.  Wear coats and boots to be protected, but then fully enjoy the rain.

  • Alert children to upcoming events so they can mentally prepare, e.g. "In ten minutes, it will be time for bed."

  • Laugh a lot.  Play with words.  Tell jokes.  Help your child to develop a sense of humor.

  • Provide your child with appropriate-sized furniture: his/her own table and chair for working; perhaps a rocker in the living room to be with you; a bed that can easily be made by a child; a stool for climbing up to sink or counter.

  • Memorize poetry and teach it to your child and recite it together.

  • Learn to say no without anger and with firmness and conviction.  Not everything children want is appropriate.

  • Understand what Montessori meant by "sensitive periods."  Know when your child is in one and utilize it.





Excerpt from Tomorrow's Child Magazine, September 2012

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